Myths

Onehunga Toastmasters may not be what you think

People put off working on themselves for all sorts of reasons. If any of the following has kept you away, have another look.

Myth 1 — I don’t need Toastmasters, I have been giving presentations for years.

Reality: …and you are probably using the same techniques you started with years ago. For experienced speakers, Toastmasters is a way to expand and modernise your style. You get honest feedback and good suggestions for alternative techniques.

Myth 2 — I don’t need Toastmasters, I don’t give speeches.

Reality: What about when your boss asks for a status report? When you phone someone to ask a question or pass on information? When you put an idea to a staff meeting? The more you treat your everyday conversations as presentations, the more care you give them — and the more professional they become. Toastmasters helps you develop that edge.

Myth 3 — I’m not smart enough. I’ll be embarrassed. I can’t think of anything to talk about.

Reality: Everyone is smart enough. Everyone has something that interests them and that they can share. You won’t be any more embarrassed than you are among friends. Have you got a hobby? What is your job like? Do you have family? Have you ever fixed something? Where did you go on your last holiday? You have a lot to say.

Myth 4 — The other members are already good speakers. I’d be nervous.

Reality: We do have good speakers, and every one of them started where you are. Even the most experienced speakers get nervous — Toastmasters will not eliminate that. What we can do is help you find a way to use that adrenaline to your advantage. Many of our senior members keep speaking precisely because there is always something new to learn from each other.

Myth 5 — You have to attend every meeting.

Reality: You attend as many as you want. There is no minimum. As a courtesy to everyone else — and to get the most out of it — taking part regularly helps, either speaking or in one of the other roles. But you choose how often. Simply being there as an audience for the other speakers is genuinely valuable.

Myth 6 — Each speech is criticised.

Reality: Toastmasters is firmly against criticism. Our word is evaluation, and we concentrate on helping you understand what you are doing right, then suggest alternatives to try next time. It is not about making you change — it is about building your speaking toolkit. The more tools you have practised, the more options you have when it counts.

Myth 7 — Toastmasters is very time-consuming.

Reality: The time you give it is up to you. Speeches take preparation, but you can draw on topics from work or home to keep that light, and you can space them to suit your schedule — you learn at your own pace. Roles like evaluator and timekeeper need almost no preparation. Table Topics and chairing a meeting need very little, or none at all if you think fast on your feet. You attend as many meetings as you can. There are no musts.

Myth 8 — I want to, but I don’t have the time.

Reality: If you want to and you need to, you will find the time. Every one of our members is a busy person with limited time. Finding it is a matter of need and commitment.

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